Sunday, February 25, 2007

J.ennifer H.udson Triple Threat


She is so fortunate. I just can not believe that she won the Globe, SAG and OSCAR. This is his sstory in the making. I am so happy for someone that I don't really know and they don't know me...but isn't that Hollywood? I just had to get that out.
Busy Sunday for me...feeling tired and hoping for a bright new day. You can catch me in the new [day].
Your Horoscope for Today: You are loved and you just don't feel it. It's because you need to connect the adapter. Love yourself and all things will feed through that connection. Happy Academy Night;)

Saturday, February 24, 2007

"Stuck in the City"...Is Nothing Like "Sex in the City"



So here I am stuck in Toronto, while my good friends are in D.C. I mean I could have gone, but I didn't want to over do it this year in respect to my yearly budget. I want to make sure that this year I save more then I spend - definitely a challenge. While they are down there they will be visiting NYC, which is my krytonite. My wallet starts to flash different colours when I get close. In Manhattan, all hell breaks loose and I find myself charging and debiting my account at the same time...lol.

I will be taking a vacation in March, but I haven't decided on going anywhere particular. Paradise would be nice. Every time I listen to Howard Hewitt's [ex-Shalamar member] "Show Me", I imagine that I am in paradise, surrounded by white sands and crystal blue beaches. I've never been down south to a tropical island. Definitely a destination, I plan to arrive at sometime soon.

My Horoscope to you: You will go through some old photos and think where did I go. Make an effort to get a part of that person back (i.e. mentally, physically, spiritually). Travel & Explore - knowledge awaits you. Happy Saturday.

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

A little R(ant) & R(ave)...




OK OK...they really got to do something about the subway system here in Toronto. It's not 'cutting' it, when they only have 3 subway lines available for inner city travel!!!




Here's how the story (typically) goes...




Everyday after 5pm the masses rush into the subway stations along Yonge street. Standing right at the edge, you feel the breeze of the oncoming train. A little nervous you take a step back and watch the faces through the glass doors that suddenly part. You try to get into the subway car gracefully, but efforts quickly diminish when you feel the push of others from behind. You sarcastically apologize to those around you and search for something in sight to hold on to. In a fixed position, each second feels like a minute and every minute feels like an hour. "Just one more stop" you pray and plead at the same time! Then finally you get to your station and your safe until its time to go back...




It can get uncomfortably close. It's like "how was your day?" and your noses brushes against another traveler or "sorry" after you've moved your hand and it has caressed a stranger's ass in the process. I guess it's the only way you can ride the TTC at these times. Sometimes, I just pray that the person in front of me has satisfactory - good breath! If that wasn't enough! You have the train conductor going nuts because you are leaning on the door. As everyone looks at you standing against the door, you put on your: I'm-telling-you-it's-not-me face - in hopes to divert the attention away; rarely successful.




I think we need the Olympics to build the type of infrastructure they have in NYC or London. If not that then something. I mean, something has got to give, because I can not take lunging into a subway car just to get home at a reasonable time.




OK so that is my rant for today...sigh*




My Horoscope to you: You will come to an epiphany that you used to club at epiphany and now wonder where did the years go. Note: If you didn't have the revelation previously noted you are doing well, so keep it moving.

Tuesday, February 20, 2007








Hey Ya'll. If you know me ... you know I loove me some TLC. Chilli 's "Straight Jack" recently leaked and I have to admit that it sounds like Kelis meets PCD. I'm not sure if Polow da don was really capturing her in that track. I heard that the track was old, so hopefully it won't be released. Chillifan.com has it so check it out.
I've been crazy busy ya'll just getting everything in order for school and work, so I'mma keep this short.
My Horoscope to You: Drink more water...does a body good.


Sunday, February 18, 2007

Quince-Essential

If you ever come to Toronto, Canada and want to have a great dinner with an amazing ambiance, then you must go to Quince. I had such a great time there that I had to write them a letter. This is rare of me! Please read what I had to say:


" To Jennifer & Michael:

Quince is an elegant blend of various cultures around the world. Your restaurant has much to offer to its patrons. From the great décor that provides an intimate ambiance, to the wonderful dishes brilliantly developed. I had the privilege of hosting a birthday party and the service was impeccable.

My best friend celebrated his 29th birthday on 02/17/07 at your restaurant and you made it a night to remember. From the planning phase of the event, you were very welcoming & accommodating; which is a change from other restaurants I’ve been to. A guest list of 14 soon turned into 17 and it wasn’t a problem. For the guests attending (including myself), this would the first time that we would be having the “Quince” experience. The private party area was setup appropriately with: a TV, music system and a nice bench layered with pillows. All of these features were made for a unique experience; a definite plus.

The food was great. The flat iron steak w/ frites is an excellent dish. The Dutch poutine is also a great appetizer. I heard from the other guests that they enjoyed their dishes as well. From the Capunti w/ Parmesan shavings to the bacon-wrapped quail, everyone really enjoyed their meals.

The service was great. Your servers Pedro and Emily were really polite and personable. Usually you find that the owner/s is caught up in administrative functions; but at Quince you showed us a different type of owner. Jennifer, as the one of the owners, you were really involved and made sure that this was a great experience. We will definitely be repeat customers and from what I have heard from our guests, they also will be having their engagements there.

Thank you for many things: A positive atmosphere, personable service and great food.
"

Please visit Quince Restaurant Toronto @ 2110 Yonge Street, Toronto, Ontario M48 2A5.

I had to write this letter because usually when you hold an event at a restaurant, they bombard you with a ton of restrictions. Quince was very accommodating. I mean I got to play all my favorite jams while I ate! I felt at home and the food was great. For those who are wondering, there is no compensation for the plug! This is a sincere testimonial. Happy Sunday.

My 'Horoscoping' to you: Eat well, drink well and make sure you thank the server. S/he is bringing you your food, which could determine your fate at the end of the night.

Thursday, February 15, 2007

Hardaway To Learn



I really don't like to talk about popular news, but I gotta say something on this hot mess! Does the world really think that celebrities and athletes love everyone and are understanding of all differences. Celebrities and Athletes are human like the rest of us. Why are we sooo surprised to hear that this boy [Tim Hardaway] is slandering the gay population? I spent a whole summer in Atlanta where the minister at the church was preaching hate. I know some of you will come for me, but i'm going to say it! The black church in the U.S. has not been tolerable of homosexuality. I would even go as far to say that the black church has not addressed sexuality in a healthy manner. BET struggles with it everyday. One second they're saying "wrap it up", then in the next minute playing Nelly's "Tip-Drill". That is another story all together...heheh.

I think this gentleman is expressing all the teachings that surround him. His family and friends buffer the way of thought and so why would he question it. It's not until they see how much of a backlash the media gives that they start to say the "right" things. Nobody is telling this boy to sleep with dudes and yet he is hyper-ventilating. Can someone please hold his hand and tell him it will be ok?

It's unfortunate that people hold such archaic thoughts of gays and lesbians. The funny thing is black people should be the first to understand how it feels to be oppressed and yet they jump to the opportunity to do it to someone else. Bigots will tell you that there is a difference between racism and prejudice, but they all are rooted in ignorance and fear.

I'm not saying that every black church is the same; however there is a prominent thought that is held within the community that speaks against it.

Did he not learn anything from Isaiah Washington scandal? He probably wouldn't even know what I was talking about, if I asked him.

My Horoscope to you: You will take the time today to lie down and wonder. In the process of all this wonder, don't pick your nose...Someone will be watching.

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Cupid Doesn't Lie...But You Won't Know Until You Give It A Try



So the storm wasn't that bad and I found myself at work aaaand school! Oh well, it's better that way. I don't like going into class to ask strangers for a copy of their work. I don't know if it's a pride thing or what, but it just doesn't sit right. Maybe, it's because I don't see myself that generous with others when it comes to stuff like this. I'd probably put on my I'm-the-one-who-sat-in-class-for-3hrs-and-took-all-these-good-darn-notes-and-you-want-some-of-it face on! Well maybe not that bad...but there would be "A" face...he he




So today is Valentine's day and I couldn't help but notice many couples out and about. For some ladies (and men), this is the only time they get to go out with their "hubby". Tomorrow it's back to the basics. A return to the relationship norms. Today is an anomaly of a day in the year (if you will). I say this because, only on today do we make such exaggerated efforts to be as poetic and "luvy duvvy"; do things we should express on a daily basis. I am not "hating" on the day, but I think a lot of people do things because they feel they have to and not because they want to. There is a huge difference (for those that don't know). Enjoy the day for what is it...another day...Life is reason enough. <---was that too deep? It should be...




Your horoscope from me: Revenge is a bitch! So today make sure you do it right the first time;)

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Thoughts For You In A Day.


A winter storm is due to hit the Toronto area...hoooray. As much as I love going to work and school (choke)...I think a smile will come upon my face if I have to skip one of the two. I don't think Toronto has been hit with a storm this winter, so we are due for some R&R. I wish I could say I was going to a hot place instead (like some of my friends) but unfortunately I can't. Trinidad or Puerto Vallerta anyone?


On my way home I popped into HMV and the Amy Winehouse CD was only $7.99! What a steal deal! She'll also be at the Mod club , so you can bet that I will be there. I can't wait! The album is really good. I haven't got through the whole album but I'm just waiting for her to get nuts on a track. I love when Christina Aguilera does it. you know like she did at the Grammys. What a hot redition of "A Man's World".


I wish I could just travel the world and educate myself. Sometimes I look at people who seemingly have infinite wealth and wonder why they never really use their money to extend beyond their front yard! In the past you could say "If I had a million dollars", but now you need a lot more than that to really do it up in style...he he.


My horoscope for you today: You will take a moment to think, only to realize that life is more like playdoh than you thought. Knowledge gives you power beyond belief. Weary of your new found knowledge, you choose to not play with the playdoh as carelessly as you once did. Ignorance is bliss isn't it...sometimes.

Monday, February 12, 2007

These Dreams Come To Me, When I Close My Eyes...


Sorry, I've been so "lax" with the blog lately...not on purpose...let me explain. I have been trying to focus on work and also keep on top of school work. I apologize for those that missed catching a good joke...or just had to read something mediocre for the last few days...hehe.


I guess everybody is still talking about The Grammys, Anna Nicole's death and the crazy astronaut-mess...but I'll think I'll pass on that for now. I'm still not ready to talk about Cre Flo Dollar either! You have to be in the mood to delve into that stuff. To tell you the truth I'm too tired to type all that out... I gotta start right in the morning with that stuff.
i.e. As soon as Bobby Jones Gospel is finished, blog!


A few days ago I had this weird dream that I was waiting to get into this secret community center to play b-ball. When I finished a game with a few of my friends, I found myself out on the streets of NYC. There was so much turmoil and shooting everywhere. I ended up in a school that was virtually taken hostage and I remember either getting shot or shooting someone. It was one of the weirdest dreams of 2007. What do you make of it? I like to think that I'm a peaceful non-voilent individual. That just set me off for the rest of Sunday.


Have you ever had reoccurring dreams? I remember as a child, I had this reoccurring dream that I was looking for my mother. In every dream I would go to familiar places to ask unfamiliar people, if they knew who and where my mom was. I can't express the anxiety it would cause me as a child. I would wake up only to check and see, if my mother was still there. Why my mother and not my father? Well as a kid I was used to being around my mother a lot before entering elementary. It's funny that I still remember these dreams.


I have to say that Saturday was rocky for me because Friday night I had dream after dream...after dream. It wears a person down after a while. Even though you sleep for 12hrs, you can't seem to get any true rest because you're always in action or movement in your dreams. I would have to say that is the only time, I dislike dreaming.


I have to unload and unwind tonight, so I can have minimal disruption tonight..."These dreams come to me when I close my eyes"...


Thursday, February 8, 2007

It's Too Good To Be True...


Thursday always seems to find a way of draining the hell out of me! I just can't seem to get anything done. It's all because I'm anticipating the weekend, so it just makes everything that much more tedious. How I do looove the weekend...whoa!!! Today I was going to talk about Cre Flo Dollar... you know... the minister with the golden gates at his crib, while his followers scrape for tithe...yea him...but I thought I would give the "Religious debate" a rest for a minute and talk about what's on my mind right now.

It all started when...
I was looking at a picture of Terrence Howard and thought to myself:
Here is an attractive, charismatic gentleman, with charm and some sense of class.
The majority of these thoughts came to mind not because of what he's accomplished or said in his interviews but solely on his looks. He 'appears' to be this type of man because he is good looking and does not offend; isn't cocky. I guess the Halo-effect got me.

Why is it that good-looking people seem like they get away with basically anything? Is it a stereotype or is there some truth to this? The more I think about what some good looking people I know get away with...whoo...the more it gets so tired.

First of all:



  • You find yourself comparing yourself to them every so often. Looking for moments where they may not look as good as you thought or times that you may out-shine them. How horrible...but it's true.

and...



  • If your one of the unlucky people that has to be around a lot of beautiful people, you find yourself welcoming the presence of an ugly person to make yourself feel good...ha ha

OK ... well maybe we're all not like this but in your private moments, I'm sure you do go through something similar to this. If your still saying "No", I think your lying to yourself.

The worst is if it involves your siblings and you just happen to be the not -so attractive one - Ouch! Yea, that's not the greatest feeling. Your family and friends comparing you, telling you ways to improve yourself - not good. I used to get a bit of that growing up. I think that I held it down pretty good. I was real cute as a kid and I think that's why my brothers (one in particular) used to tease me a lot. As a kid, I remember being attractive helped you get over your shyness. I never really had to talk to anyone; they all came to you. I guess if your someone who really doesn't want to believe the attention your getting is-for-what-it-is, then you may remain shy.

The advantages don't just end there! Being attractive means that you also have the pick of the lot. Never scrounging for a date. You come across as more believable person in court (read your sociology books for this one). There is a lot going on for the good looking.

I know this entry may come across as being shallow...but I don't think so. I never said that this was the most important thing, or that I don't talk to people who are not good looking. I never even defined what is "good looking" or "Ugly". I understand that the perceptions of this vary from person to person. Generally there could be a broad spectrum created to make certain features inherent amongst most good looking people; however even the order of these features are up for debate. It also means that those that are fortunate to recognize their own beauty or develop a charismatic personality get more out of their vanity. I don't think that I should shy away from talking about attraction/looks, as so many of us are afraid to do. The media does it all the time. We complain about how we are disappointed with images put out by the media, but many of us are willing to buy the products to fit the mold. That's an oxymoron? We hate walking that thin line, when it comes to anything. Just live...in this case keep groomed;)

Wednesday, February 7, 2007

Puttin On The Jazmine To Season Life






This girl is-the-jam! I love her voice. All I can say is go to YouTube and find any clips you can. She has one impressive clip that takes place at the Apollo when she was 12. The performance simply blew the audience away. Her voice is mature, raspy and heart-felt.


Though she has been around for years, she has not been able to plant herself firmly with a record company that knows how to market her well. Currently at the age of 19, she performs at various outlets. She has a live performance of Christina Milian's "Say I" and she kills it. I guess she would since it's her song! I hope that she gets a record out soon. I want the world to know what I'm talking about.


Message to Jazmine: I'm "lovin you", how do I "Make You stay"? Just don't "Break my little heart"...


hehe...you get the point.

Tuesday, February 6, 2007

7th Grader is a Pedophile? Help Me Figure This Out



So this 12 years old boy (ahem) named "Casey Price" was doing pretty good in school until the authorities came around and messed up his flow...I'm joking. This guy is a capital "P". He is actually 29 and was trying to pass as a 7th grader in a school near Phoenix. If it wasn't messed up enough, he had conned two men into believing he was 12 and lived with them in their trailer. He also lived with his "cousin" who was also a capital "P". The four men have been charged and place on 1 million dollar bond.

This is a pretty sick case if you ask me. I mean it's bad enough that you have a fetish for children, but why do you have to go and put makeup on and dress like a child. The saddest part is someone's child actually had sex with this fool thinking he was 12. He had kiddie porn tapes and other pedophilia located at the trailer (quel surprise). What the hell is going on here???

What more can I say? I'm not sure if I should laugh or sigh! I need to lay down...

Monday, February 5, 2007

I May Have Bad Credit, But I Am NOT A Thief


People...I am here and fighting this sickness. I hate being sick ya'll! I've been confined to my bed for too long, so I thought I'd reach out.
I was doing a little reading (like I usually do) and came across an article titled "Credit Checks: A Civil Rights Issue?". The article discussed a case where a female of colour was denied employment at Harvard because she had bad credit. In reaction to that she filed a complaint w/ her lawyer. It is their belief that this is a clear case of racial discrimination. Now before you go throwing your hands up in the air because you think she pulled the race card, read this:



  • Studies indicate that minorities are more likely to have bad credit, but credit problems have not been shown to negatively affect job performance.

  • In 2004 a study involving 2 million people, Texas department of insurance said blacks had an average credit score roughly 10% to 35% worse than whites; Hispanics scored 5% to 25% worse than white.

  • Credit checks are a growing factor in hiring; 35% of employers checking credit histories ( a 19% increase from 1996) -SHRM

I think that it is important that employers take these facts into consideration. I understand that an employer may reserve the right, when someone is employed to handle money; however it seems like a credit check is the wrong type of background check. Shouldn't they do a criminal background check? There has been no studies linking poor credit to theft.


Unfortunately these are the types of struggles that continually create an economic divide. If denied for a job for poor credit, the applicant should at least have the opportunity to appeal.


I know that these statistics reflect American studies, but I feel that Canadians go through a similar feat. I know that with those student loans your debt ratio increases and they [loans] seem almost impossible to get rid of.


Universities are business. I came to this realization after they took all my money and some! I kept thinking that they wanted the best for me...so naive. They were thrilled if you failed a course; more money in their pocket. Never ending school...they loved it. Someone should have told me I needed a PhD to get anywhere with my degree. I would have went straight to college and became my own boss. I would have put that $40,000.00 somewhere else. I also blame the parents. They believe all the hype. "You must go to university!". It's all so they can say that my son/daughter is a graduate of something. All that debt to feel like a graduate? A somebody? Think about it. When the degree is attained and the piece of paper worth $40,000 is in hand, why is it so hard to find a good-paying job? As a result we can't pay the loans or the debt. The loan then becomes the least important on our list of bills to pay; all the while affecting our credit score.


I think the hardest thing about credit is that growing up the importance of good credit is not learned until it's too late. So many of us are victimized by parents that take our good credit and trash it or are lured into signing agreements that promise "perks". In my high school, there was one class on financial planning. It was a very good class, but I think that there should have been more units integrated on all levels of schooling.

Lesson: It is important to pay your bills first, then go buy that hot new piece Club Monaco has on sale!

For all of us (unless you are just born into an infinite supply of wealth), we need to be taught how to manage our money. I mean, you can always pay someone else to do it for you, but they could be scamming you too--Toni Braxton...need I say more.

Sunday, February 4, 2007

So Sick...

Hey Everyone,

Sorry about being away the last two days, but I've caught the cold/fever thing thats been going around. I hope to be posting again tomorrow. Sorry bout leaving you hangin' . I'll make it up to you soon.

-His Sstory-

Friday, February 2, 2007

Have You Heard The New GAP Song, "Shake It Up"





So another one bites the dust! Cynthia Harriss, president of Gap North America has resigned. The former president of Disneyland Resorts, first became president of Gap's Outlet division in 2004 and then went on to became president of Gap North America in spring of 2005.

She resigned effective immediately! You know what that means. They told her to get the hell out!

Sounds like there is trouble in paradise...lol I hope that the shoes are filled with somone with bigger brand ideas. The person who will be filling her shoes is Marka Hansen (a 20 year veteran). Hansen comes from the Banana line, so I hope they finally get their shine!

Where are the innovators?...Gap...Where are the innovators?

Let's hope this shake up brings a better wardrobe!!!

Happy Friday Night.

Thursday, February 1, 2007

It Sure Looking Better On The Other Side!


Happy Black History Month. I think images like this remind us that we can not tolerate prejudice, bigotry or any "ism" that causes a divide. The design of the water fountain is killing me - purposely making one to look inferior to the other. Would I have made it through back then?...Not so sure. I wouldn't necessarily call myself a rebel...but I was never one to just sit aside either.

So what does this month mean for you? Regardless of your race, I think on some level everyone can identity with a time or place where they were not treated fairly. Recognizing that fair and just treatment of individuals is necessary to spread peace, is the most important concept to keep in mind.

I am thankful for all the fallen scholars/soldiers who fought to change the thinking of the black archetype. I hope that my efforts in life serve to make you proud.

Now if we could get the word out that Africa is not a city, not a country, but a continent w/ many different cultures.... We'll be good.

(Yes, I am attacking the "I AM AFRICAN" ads).